Red hearts, red tissue paper, red-covered boxes of chocolates, and store lined with red valentine cards. Yep, its that time of year when men are stressed what to get their sweetheart, singles feel left out, and the merchants are laughing all the way to the bank. I am not a fan of Valentines. It can be a sad day, an extremely pressured time for what could have been or longing for any kind of love.  (now don’t get me wrong,…