A common woe in the parenting world you hear about are ‘power struggles‘. Let’s use getting in the shower (willingly) as an example. The child resists. Parents dig their heels in. The child digs THEIR heels in. And the struggle goes on and on. Old fashioned advice is to give them a smack. The ‘newer’ popular version of this advice is that if you just toughen up, set clear boundaries, or use a systematic discipline system, then the power struggles…