I have a first name that no one can spell correctly and it never makes the list of one of those Facebook memes suggesting I deserve a quiet, beach vacation (can “Brandy” just make one list). After 40 years and four,rambunctious kids, I’m just content to remember my name most days. All kidding aside, names are important and changing a foster child’s name after adoption is a big decision. Our names are our identity; whether we like our particular name…