Like most parents, you probably had it all perfectly planned out the moment you discovered you were pregnant: I’ll never let my child watch cartoons…I’m always going to cook everything from scratch…I’ll never put them into childcare! The list goes on…but life doesn’t always go the way we want it to or initially plan! And the statements above and other unrealistic perhaps idealistic ideas are just more fuel to add to the “mom guilt” fire. Well, first of all let…