When you adopt a child, there’s a lot said about ‘life story work’ which is, basically, an economical term for describing the lifelong process of helping an adopted child understand their past and their present, and why things have happened as they have. OB has never really been interested in his life story. I feel strangely guilty about that, as if it’s somehow a failure on my part to make the whole life story thing interesting and worthwhile. The prevailing…