Do you know how bad your child feels when they mess up? They may look angry. They may look amused. They may show bravado. But in every kid that messes up is a pit of shame, sadness, confusion and doubt about their own self-worth. How do we know? Because aren’t those the exact same feelings we adults feel when we mess up – when we really look inside? And we parents often heap on that shame. You get into blame…