I found out that I was pregnant New Year’s Day.  We were surprised and excited and anxious.  Of course, we had to wait several weeks before we actually got to see a doctor, so 28 days later we made our way to the doctor excited to hear our baby’s heartbeat for the first time.      At our first appointment we went in for the sonogram and it was very exciting until the technician said, ,”Oh…wait a minute…”  It got very…