girls’ friendship drama

What should I do about my clingy friend? – Parents Article

July 27, 2018 I need more space It’s been a while since I updated my blog. Just to let you know, I have not been slacking. Most of my work is done at schools, so summer is typically a time for other projects. I’m working on a YA novel. It’s going slowly, thank you, and I appreciate having this time to make progress. That said, I got an email from a tween this morning and thought it might help you and…

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“I try to tell my best friend I don’t want her help, but she gets mad.” – Parents Article

Twenty years ago I set up shop as Hey Terra at to help teens manage their emotions responsibly so they can develop self-respect and maintain healthier relationships. 50K teen emails later, the most common question I get is still about the challenges of dealing with feelings and speaking up for oneself in a friendship. I know exactly what you need! Our kids don’t know how to  resolve peer conflicts non-violently. Retaliating with social garbage is a form of violence. Suffering silently is a form…

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