Fakesgiving is one of my very favorite holidays. The only calendar it can be found on is the one a divorced mom keeps, alongside the other holidays when her kids are with another parent.  It hasn’t always been a celebration. Once upon a time, when the holiday sharing was new and the weekly visitation felt like 24 hours of stabbing pain in my side, Fakesgiving was one more reminder that our family would never again be the picture I’d seen…