I have a friend named Judy.  Judy is both an adoptive mom and a social worker and I don’t think she’s even aware of this, but I’ve heard her say two things regarding adoption that have always stuck with me.  I’d like to pass them on in case they’re helpful to anybody else.  The first example: Judy recounted how she heard someone once tell her “But I just don’t understand how you can love a child if they’re not biologically…