It is time to write my 2019 goals. The New Year is supposed to be a new beginning, a fresh start, a clean slate, a time of optimism and renewal. In January, we purge our lives of the toxins that have been dragging us down for the last few months; we take out a gym membership; we do dry January and according to an article I read today, we file for divorce. No, I am not being flippant.  7th of…